After a few games, you'll notice something: everyone stops at the same time and heads inside.

This isn't an interruption. It's the point.

The "Third Place"

Sociologists talk about the need for a "Third Place"—a spot that isn't work and isn't home, where you can just be a human being. For our members, the club house is that place.

The lawn is for competition. The club house is for connection.

What happens during the break

This is the great equaliser. On the lawn, there are winners and losers. Off the lawn, everyone is just a member holding a mug.

You'll find that the person who just ruthlessly knocked your ball into the garden is usually the first person to offer you a biscuit. This specific switch—from fierce competitor to friendly neighbour—is unique to the sport.

You are invited

As a "Come and Try" participant, you might feel like a guest who shouldn't intrude.

The reality is the opposite. The break is designed for you. It's the best time to ask questions about the game that you were too busy to ask while playing.

So, when the call goes out for tea this week, put down the mallet. Come inside. The practice can wait.

This week, you'll be paired with a member for the first time. The tea break is where that relationship starts.